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I believe in making it exist first—and then making it better. By studying the greats and carving out my own path, I created this space as a safe, unapologetic home for Black women to have honest conversations about self-love, mindset, faith, and growth—while prioritizing peace and evolving on their own terms.
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From Burn-Out to BLISS.

Through streaming and storytelling, I share what it looks like to upgrade your mindset, root yourself in self-love, and move with intention—one day at a time.

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Hi Loves,............... 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s tba ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo motivational video, self improvement, glow up, level up, that girl, life lessons, self love, relationship advice, it girl, personal development, confidence, self care, growth mindset, girl talk, self development
If You’re Always “Preparing” But Never Starting, This Is For You
You don’t need a new personality to change your life. You need a new environment. Most people try to fix their lives by forcing motivation, discipline, or confidence. But real change doesn’t start there—it starts with small, strategic shifts to the environment around you. In this video, we talk about how simple, practical changes—like who you’re around, what you see every day, and what systems you live inside—can create massive long-term impact on your mental health, income, and opportunities. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 0:36 introduction 0:50 ai vs my own mindset 1:18 small vs big actions 2:06 level up with tangible actions 2:52 the mindset is necessary 4:39 things happen everyday 5:15 importance of guarding your attention 6:26 the type of pressure i am accustomed to 8:04 the trap of adult complacency 8:54 use your access to information 10:00 the issue of willful ignorance and scapegoating 10:39 change your environment 14:19 hatching a plan to change my environment 15:36 how changing the environment changes you 16:37 big fish vs small fish 17:16 your lessons and success might be else where 18:04 once you get it, you'll figure out how to maintain 19:47 socioeconomic status and virtues 23:19 hard vs soft skills 23:59 the types of job you need 25:08 most stressful jobs 27:25 least stressful jobs 29:04 why no tech jobs 29:58 break 30:44 boss babe delulu reality 31:09 gym girlie 32:19 hotel front desk 33:47 high end security 36:21 customer service 36:36 entrepreneurs solve problems 41:50 ai recommendations 42:55 trades that make money 43:50 do your job in the best environment possible 46:06 the million dollar idea 47:37 revisiting first class experiences 48:19 level up immersion lol ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #changeyourlife #simplechanges #environmentdesign #upwardmobility #lifedesign #selfimprovement #personalgrowth #buildabetterlife #mindsetshift #environmentmatters #breakthecycle #lifeleverage #growthmindset #fromsurvivalto stability #intentionalliving
Your *entire* life would change, if you switched up your environment!
We’re officially entering a disciplined era. This year is about running a structured, intentional program instead of relying on motivation alone. No more winging it, no more inconsistency — just clear goals, consistent action, and systems that actually support progress. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 0:28 channel updates 0:49 visiting family in Mississippi 2:23 introduction 2:54 Last year's energy 4:50 This year's energy 6:20 setting goals vs tone 7:01 focusing on setting actionable steps 7:22 1 million dollar version of your self 8:42 auditing past success 9:45 addressing vulnerabilities that keep us from showing up 10:25 The year of the horse 12:01 addressing more vulnerabilities that keep us from showing up 13:24 the routine for success 14:30 making discipline lazy girl friendly 15:30 planner changes 18:28 planning but not doing 19:25 time management 21:00 no more feeling bad for myself 22:48 guarding your thoughts & goals 23:46 listening to ourself 24:34 no more validation seeking 25:02 focusing on your self, period 27:33 your attention is the currency 28:10 the importance of protecting your peace 29:27 a trend i am noticing 31:49 this year's energy 32:49 shifting from jobs to ownership 34:19 making the best use out of our situation 34:59 prefacing tomorrow's video 35:49 planner and vision board trick 38:01 making necessary changes 39:22 reflections on life path ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #DisciplinedEra #GoalSetting #PersonalDevelopment #Consistency #SystemsOverMotivation #BuildingBetterHabits #LongTermGoals
We are running a strict program this year! *finally* entering into our disciplined era for 2026
Can Black women have it all—love, marriage, kids, success, and peace—or does patriarchy make that impossible, In this live discussion we break down why “just pick better men” is lazy advice, explore celebrity case studies and examine how women’s success shifts power dynamics, challenges masculinity, triggers ego, and exposes the limits of individual choice in a patriarchal system, this conversation dives into misogynoir, marriage, gender roles, masculinity, emotional labor, power, relationships, and what actually needs to change for Black women to truly thrive. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 1:59 introduction 4:08 women are choosing their own path 4:55 inspired by Ayesha Curry's podcast comments 5:36 addressing the agist programming 6:33 if we knew, we wouldn't have rushed 8:46 channeling creation energy into passion projects 9:13 caveats of being high achieving for women 11:54 disclaimer for celebrity case studies 12:50 High Achieving Women dynamics 14:12 High Achiever: Beyonce 19:27 High Achiever: Whitney Houston 23:33 High Achiever: Cardi B 27:18 break to get pizza out of the oven 27:57 High Achievers dating down: Nicki Minaj 31:48 pitfalls of dating lower 33:24 High Achievers dating down: Halle Bailey 35:29 We never discussed dating growing up 36:40 High Achievers dating down: Rihanna 38:36 Our Achilles Heel 40:15 High Achievers dating down: Kandi Burruss 42:55 High Achievers dating down: Simone Biles 45:00 High Achievers dating down: Keke Palmer 45:55 Exploring Building in Relationships 49:39 the moment you start pitying the man... 51:39 men are successful because they have helpmates 52:33 Revisiting Ayesha Curry 54:03 Hard work going unnoticed: Coretta Scott King 54:53 Eslanda Robeson and more 57:34 Living on their on Terms: Lori Harvey 58:33 Living on their on Terms: Tracee Ellis Ross 59:48 Living on their on Terms: Oprah 1:00:30 Women who have it all 1:03:41 Common themes in positive relationships 1:04:41 You owe it to yourself to create and achieve ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #BlackWomen #CanBlackWomenHaveItAll #DatingAndRelationships #MarriageAndMoney #Patriarchy #Masculinity #PickBetterMen #WomenAndPower #CelebrityRelationships #CardiB #Ciara #MeghanMarkle #Beyonce #SerenaWilliams #Misogynoir #ModernDating #Feminism #GenderRoles #BlackLove #WomenSuccess #MillennialTalk #GenZTalk
Can Women Have It All? Let’s Talk Love, Success, Ego & Power...
From viral moments to red carpet headlines, 2025 gave us more than just celebrity drama — it gave us real-life lessons. ✨ In this video, we break down the moments from our favorite celebrities that actually taught us something: about growth, boundaries, resilience, reinvention, and staying true to yourself when everyone’s watching. Whether it was an interview clip, a comeback story, or a quiet power move, these celebs turned the spotlight into something meaningful. If you love pop culture and personal growth, this one’s for you. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 0:34 introduction 0:51 disclaimers 1:51 Nelly & Ashanti taught us... 7:43 Kandi & Todd Taught us... 15:03 Megan The Stallion Taught us... 18:14 Beyonce Taught us... 23:33 Kamala Taught us... 32:09 Meghan Markle Taught us... 37:38 Beyonce & Kelly Taught us... 41:56 Beyonce, Monica & Brandi Taught us... 44:05 Cardi B & Nicki Taught Us... ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #CelebrityLessons #LifeLessonsFromCelebrities #PopCulture2025 #CelebrityWisdom #LessonsFromTheSpotlight #RedCarpetToRealLife #GenZCulture #MillennialCulture #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #PopCultureLessons #CelebrityMoments #2025Recap #TrendingCelebrities #FameAndLifeLessons celebrity lessons 2025, life lessons from celebrities, pop culture insights, celebrity interviews lessons, Gen Z pop culture, millennial pop culture, personal growth inspiration, viral celebrity moments, red carpet moments lessons
From the Red Carpet to Real Life: Life Lessons Celebs Gave Us in 2025...
2025 was a year of growth, challenges, lessons, and unexpected wins. In this video, I’m doing a full end-of-year reflection—sharing what went right, what didn’t, and the moments that truly shaped me this year. I’m also walking you through my 2026 goals, how I’m approaching the new year differently, and the mindset shifts I’m taking with me moving forward. If you’re reflecting on your year or setting intentions for the next one, I hope this video inspires you to pause, reset, and dream bigger. 🛎Make sure to LIKE 👍, COMMENT 💬, SUBSCRIBE ‼️ 🛎Please Don’t Forget to Click the Notification Bell, So You Won’t Miss Any Future Uploads. ♡ t i m e s t a m p s 0:00 start 0:30 shop talk 1:54 introduction 2:17 journal entry example 4:15 glows- work 11:54 glows - youtube 16:53 special thank you 17:41 glows - finances 21:00 glows - spiritual 24:15 grows - health and wellness 26:39 grows - finances 33:57 opportunities - mastering surrender 37:35 opportunities - trusting self 39:08 opportunities - lean into uranus energy 43:09 opportunities - balance social and silent time 45:11 barriers - trusting others 50:19 why we share 50:45 the mindset shift I needed 52:30 why i felt stagnant 54:10 conclusion ♡ ｐｒｏｄｕｃｔｓ ｍｅｎｔｉｏｎｅｄ my amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilianshekinah ♡ ｃｏｎｎｅｃｔ ｗｉｔｈ ｍｅ instagram: lilianshekinah ♡ ｂｕｓｉｎｅｓｓ ｉｎｑｕｉｒｉｅｓ contact.lilianshekinah@gmail.com ♡ f a q ♡ Camera: iPhone 15 Pro & Sony ZV1 ♡ m u s i c ♡ Intro & Outro: 318tae - Honest ♡ ａｆｆｉｌｉａｔｅ ｄｉｓｃｌａｉｍｅｒ ♡ This video is not a sponsored video. All thoughts are my own. Some of the provided links are affiliate, meaning I receive a small commission on a purchase without additional cost to you, if you choose to make a purchase through them. Thank you for your support. xoxo #2025Wrapped #EndOfYearReview #YearInReview #NewYearGoals #Goals2026 #PersonalGrowth #SelfReflection #LifeUpdate #GoalSetting #NewYearReset 2025 wrapped, end of year review, year in review 2025, personal reflection, new year goals 2026, goal setting 2026, life update, personal growth, self reflection, year end reset
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