I'm Lilian Shekinah.
A southern-rooted, heart-led creative, strategist, and guide for ambitious women ready to stop performing success and start living it on their own terms.
I began this work not because I had all the answers—but because I knew the ache of chasing the life I was “supposed” to want.
I did what I was taught: followed the rules, checked all the boxes, and climbed the ladder. On the outside, it looked like success. But inside?
I was exhausted, disconnected, and deeply unsatisfied. I craved softness without shame. Strategy without burnout. A life I didn’t have to hustle for just to feel worthy of peace. So I started again. Slowly. Intentionally. I softened into my own rhythm and redefined success on my terms. What I found wasn’t perfection—it was power. Now, I help other women do the same.
Through coaching, digital tools, and soul-nourishing content, I support women who are building lives that feel like home.
Whether you're navigating a career pivot, starting a business, or simply longing to feel more aligned—I'm here to help you move with clarity, self-trust, and ease.
This isn’t about playing the game better.
It’s about opting out of the status quo and writing a new story.
Your Story: Rooted in tailor made truth, contentment, wholeness, and real success—the kind you can actually feel.
Why I Do This Work
Before I stepped into coaching, I spent years in classrooms and libraries—serving as a middle school teacher and librarian.
This work was more than a job. It was a labor of love—a way to give back, to nurture young minds, and to walk in the footsteps of my mother, an educator herself. In many ways, becoming a teacher was also my way of healing a strained relationship with her—of finding connection through legacy, love, and shared purpose.
But over time, I realized something profound:
I don’t have to give up my identity to be seen, loved, or understood.
Following someone else’s path was meaningful, but it wasn’t mine entirely. And that realization set me on a journey to reclaim my voice, my rhythm, and my joy.
Being an educator was (and still is) an honorable part of my story.
It taught me the power of empathy, communication, and holding space for others. It taught me how to lead with intention and how to listen with care. And most of all, it prepared me to become the coach and guide I am today.
Over the years, I’ve had the honor of being a confidant, cheerleader, and catalyst for so many incredible women—witnessing them rise from burnout and self-doubt into clarity, courage, and self-defined success.
That’s what lights me up. That’s what I was made for.
I do this work because I want women to know they never have to shrink, perform, or ask for permission to live a life they love.
- You don’t have to choose between softness and strength.
- You don’t have to play by anyone else’s rules.
- You just have to believe that you’re allowed to want more—and trust yourself enough to go after it.
This life is yours to create—and I’m here to remind you that you’re worthy of every beautiful part of it.
Let’s Work Together
If you’re seeking personalized guidance to move through your next chapter with clarity and confidence, I’d be honored to support you.
Book a one-on-one coaching session and let’s co-create a life that aligns with your values, vision, and joy. Whether you’re in a season of transition, burnout, or breakthrough—you don’t have to navigate it alone.